Your Wedding Ceremony Script
What we say during your wedding ceremony
Photo by Casey and Her Camera at Balmoral House, Fishers
When I first started officiating weddings I would personalize a wedding ceremony for each couple. It would take hours! Literally. And it still does - that's why I charge extra for it. What I learned after a while of giving couples ceremony options was most of them would choose the same ceremony - every time. I might change a reading or give them choices for vows, but everything else stayed the same. To make it easier, I decided to take all of the wedding ceremony information I collected and just publish it on a website for anyone to use. You can read the information yourself and decide. I also took my 6 most popular wedding ceremonies and put them in one place so couples could read them. When I did that, the majority of couples still chose the same basic ceremony. They might change the vows, ring exchanges and readings to personalize them but generally, everyone likes the same one. Many couples are also having a lot of fun going down the wedding ceremony rabbit hole and creating their own wedding ceremony. I'm happy to give you the tools - and I don't charge you extra. Other wedding officiants may say that they are personalizing your ceremony but all they are really doing is presenting you with a wedding ceremony you've never seen before but they've performed every weekend for the last year. There's nothing wrong with that. As long as you are happy with your ceremony script, that's all that matters.
I create a google share document for every couple that books a wedding ceremony with me. It contains an outline with links to all of my ceremony information online. You can cut and paste your wedding ceremony right into the document.
If you want a truly personalize wedding ceremony or don't want to go through the process of creating your own ceremony, I'm very happy to do that for you. I can create original content personalized just for you or just do all the legwork for you, creating a wedding ceremony you just need to edit or approve. This really does take time. I used to think I could get it done in 20 minutes but it usually clocks in at almost 2 hours. Even with cutting and pasting information I already have, it takes time.
I create a google share document for every couple that books a wedding ceremony with me. It contains an outline with links to all of my ceremony information online. You can cut and paste your wedding ceremony right into the document.
If you want a truly personalize wedding ceremony or don't want to go through the process of creating your own ceremony, I'm very happy to do that for you. I can create original content personalized just for you or just do all the legwork for you, creating a wedding ceremony you just need to edit or approve. This really does take time. I used to think I could get it done in 20 minutes but it usually clocks in at almost 2 hours. Even with cutting and pasting information I already have, it takes time.
These ceremonies are written with the verbiage for traditional brides and grooms. We can change anything to best suit you and your relationship. Husband and Husband, Wife and Wife, Married Couple, etc... We can also change pronouns.
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Wedding Ceremony Script 1
Welcome
Family, friends, honored guests, on behalf of Name and Name, I would like to warmly welcome you to the celebration of their marriage. They wish to express their gratitude for each of you who has chosen to be here today. During the ceremony this afternoon, we respectfully request that you silence and put away all cell phones and cameras so we can all be fully present in this moment.
Name and Name have come before us today with the intention to marry one another; their love for each other has brought them to this place. Neither I nor any other can join these two lovers today. Only they can do what they have chosen. They are joining themselves, each to the other. We, by our participation in this celebration, do but recognize and honor their intention to dwell together as husband and wife.
Marriage is a dedication. You give yourself into the hands of the one you love. You do so trustingly and generously. By the same token, each of you receives a gift, the life, and love of each other.
Shakespeare wrote:
My bounty is as boundless as the sea,
My Love as deep; the more I give to thee,
The more I have, for both are infinite.
Moment of Reflection
This day will be filled with love and joy and laughter and will pass more quickly than can be imagined. The couple has requested a brief pause to reflect and absorb this moment in their lives; to look, listen, and feel; to fix these sensations in their memories for years to come.
Words about Love and Marriage
Whenever we attend a wedding, we are given the opportunity to reflect on our own relationships. We might look at the couple before us and be tempted to compare their love to the quality of our relationships. The truth is that every couple is as unique as the individuals in it, but one thing holds true: For love to exist between two people, each person must allow the vulnerability of giving his or her love to the other, and each must be open to receiving the other’s love in turn. Therefore each of us is a powerful creator of love. Each of us, every moment of every day, has the choice to dedicate ourselves to one another or to withhold our love and caring.
If you ask couples who have a strong and abiding love what they like most about their partners, many will say when they are with that person they don’t have to pretend to be anything other than what they are. They are able to express themselves without fear of being judged or rejected. There is room in the relationship for both of them to be unique individuals. They are free to surrender to the vulnerability of true intimacy—to be known and loved unconditionally.
When two people are happily married, they enjoy each other’s company with the greatest delight and excitement. As many moments they might spend together and as many conversations they might share, it could never be enough. They can find endless joy in discovering each other and in sharing their being with the other. A happy marriage is a long conversation that always seems too short.
In the words of Dana Scully, “It seems to me that the best relationships, the ones that last, are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is… suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.”
Declaration of Intent
Name and Name, before this moment you have been many things to one another, but now you shall say a few words that take you across a threshold of life, words that will irreversibly alter the relationship between you. For after these vows, you shall say to the world, this—is my husband; this—is my wife. It is relatively simple to stand here and say these words today, but far more difficult to live them day to day. When you love someone, you do not love them all the time in exactly the same way. That is impossible. Yet that is what most of us expect. We forget the ebb and flow of life and of love and of relationships. We insist on permanence, on duration, on continuity. But in love, as in life, the only stability is in change, in growth, and in freedom. Therefore what you promise today must be renewed and reaffirmed tomorrow and all the tomorrows to come.
Vows
Name, do you take Name to be the wife/husband of your days, the companion of your heart, and the friend of your life? To stand united in the face of adversity and bask together in the light of good fortune? With these words spoken, do you wish to marry Bride/Groom and join your life with hers/him?
Name, do you take Name to be the husband/wife of your days, the companion of your heart, and the friend of your life? To stand united in the face of adversity and bask together in the light of good fortune? With these words spoken, do you wish to marry Name and join your life with his/hers?
Name, do you vow to love Name faithfully, to be worthy of her/his trust and deserving of her/his respect, to support, comfort, and strengthen her/him through life's joys and sorrows, and to love her/him without reservation, all the days of your life?
Name, do you vow to love Name faithfully, to be worthy of his/her trust and deserving of his/her respect, to support, comfort, and strengthen him/her through life's joys and sorrows, and to love him/her without reservation, all the days of your life?
Ring Exchange
For generations, the passage of two people into the state of marriage has been marked by the exchange of rings.
Rings hold deep symbolic meaning. The circle is an ancient symbol representing notions of totality, wholeness, perfection, and the infinite. It implies an idea of movement and symbolizes the cycle of time. It symbolizes both the potential and the completion, the eternal cycle of life.
Even as these circles, these rings, hold universal significance, they are also personally significant to these two here today. They are a constant reminder of the bond between a husband and a wife. A visible, tangible symbol of their commitment to each other. Let these rings be a sign that love has substance as well as soul, a present as well as a past, and that this person has been chosen, this person walks not alone through life.
Name, please place this ring on Name’s finger and repeat after me:
Let this ring be a symbol of my promises to you and a reminder of my devotion to you. I am honored to call you my wife/husband.
Name, please place this ring on Name’s finger and repeat after me:
Let this ring be a symbol of my promises to you and a reminder of my devotion to you. I am honored to call you my husband/wife.
Final Words
Now you will feel no rain, for each of you will be shelter for the other. Now you will feel no cold, for each of you will be warmth to the other. Now there will be no loneliness, for each of you will be a companion to the other. Now you are two persons, but there is only one life before you. Treat yourselves and each other with respect, patience, and compassion, and remind yourselves often of what brought you together. Give the highest priority to the tenderness, gentleness, and kindness that your love deserves. If each of you takes responsibility for the quality of your life together, it will be marked by abundance and delight. May beauty surround you both in the journey ahead and through all the years. May happiness be your companion and your days together be good and long upon the earth. Go now and enter into the days of your life together.
Pronouncement
Name and Name, you have each betrothed yourself to the other in love and compassion, and you have taken upon yourselves the responsibilities of a profound and loving friendship. In the presence of these witnesses and in keeping with tradition, you have spoken the words and performed rites that have united your lives. Having so affirmed, I now pronounce that you are husband and wife.
You may seal this marriage with a kiss!
Ladies and gentlemen, it is my great pleasure to present, for the first time ...
Family, friends, honored guests, on behalf of Name and Name, I would like to warmly welcome you to the celebration of their marriage. They wish to express their gratitude for each of you who has chosen to be here today. During the ceremony this afternoon, we respectfully request that you silence and put away all cell phones and cameras so we can all be fully present in this moment.
Name and Name have come before us today with the intention to marry one another; their love for each other has brought them to this place. Neither I nor any other can join these two lovers today. Only they can do what they have chosen. They are joining themselves, each to the other. We, by our participation in this celebration, do but recognize and honor their intention to dwell together as husband and wife.
Marriage is a dedication. You give yourself into the hands of the one you love. You do so trustingly and generously. By the same token, each of you receives a gift, the life, and love of each other.
Shakespeare wrote:
My bounty is as boundless as the sea,
My Love as deep; the more I give to thee,
The more I have, for both are infinite.
Moment of Reflection
This day will be filled with love and joy and laughter and will pass more quickly than can be imagined. The couple has requested a brief pause to reflect and absorb this moment in their lives; to look, listen, and feel; to fix these sensations in their memories for years to come.
Words about Love and Marriage
Whenever we attend a wedding, we are given the opportunity to reflect on our own relationships. We might look at the couple before us and be tempted to compare their love to the quality of our relationships. The truth is that every couple is as unique as the individuals in it, but one thing holds true: For love to exist between two people, each person must allow the vulnerability of giving his or her love to the other, and each must be open to receiving the other’s love in turn. Therefore each of us is a powerful creator of love. Each of us, every moment of every day, has the choice to dedicate ourselves to one another or to withhold our love and caring.
If you ask couples who have a strong and abiding love what they like most about their partners, many will say when they are with that person they don’t have to pretend to be anything other than what they are. They are able to express themselves without fear of being judged or rejected. There is room in the relationship for both of them to be unique individuals. They are free to surrender to the vulnerability of true intimacy—to be known and loved unconditionally.
When two people are happily married, they enjoy each other’s company with the greatest delight and excitement. As many moments they might spend together and as many conversations they might share, it could never be enough. They can find endless joy in discovering each other and in sharing their being with the other. A happy marriage is a long conversation that always seems too short.
In the words of Dana Scully, “It seems to me that the best relationships, the ones that last, are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is… suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.”
Declaration of Intent
Name and Name, before this moment you have been many things to one another, but now you shall say a few words that take you across a threshold of life, words that will irreversibly alter the relationship between you. For after these vows, you shall say to the world, this—is my husband; this—is my wife. It is relatively simple to stand here and say these words today, but far more difficult to live them day to day. When you love someone, you do not love them all the time in exactly the same way. That is impossible. Yet that is what most of us expect. We forget the ebb and flow of life and of love and of relationships. We insist on permanence, on duration, on continuity. But in love, as in life, the only stability is in change, in growth, and in freedom. Therefore what you promise today must be renewed and reaffirmed tomorrow and all the tomorrows to come.
Vows
Name, do you take Name to be the wife/husband of your days, the companion of your heart, and the friend of your life? To stand united in the face of adversity and bask together in the light of good fortune? With these words spoken, do you wish to marry Bride/Groom and join your life with hers/him?
Name, do you take Name to be the husband/wife of your days, the companion of your heart, and the friend of your life? To stand united in the face of adversity and bask together in the light of good fortune? With these words spoken, do you wish to marry Name and join your life with his/hers?
Name, do you vow to love Name faithfully, to be worthy of her/his trust and deserving of her/his respect, to support, comfort, and strengthen her/him through life's joys and sorrows, and to love her/him without reservation, all the days of your life?
Name, do you vow to love Name faithfully, to be worthy of his/her trust and deserving of his/her respect, to support, comfort, and strengthen him/her through life's joys and sorrows, and to love him/her without reservation, all the days of your life?
Ring Exchange
For generations, the passage of two people into the state of marriage has been marked by the exchange of rings.
Rings hold deep symbolic meaning. The circle is an ancient symbol representing notions of totality, wholeness, perfection, and the infinite. It implies an idea of movement and symbolizes the cycle of time. It symbolizes both the potential and the completion, the eternal cycle of life.
Even as these circles, these rings, hold universal significance, they are also personally significant to these two here today. They are a constant reminder of the bond between a husband and a wife. A visible, tangible symbol of their commitment to each other. Let these rings be a sign that love has substance as well as soul, a present as well as a past, and that this person has been chosen, this person walks not alone through life.
Name, please place this ring on Name’s finger and repeat after me:
Let this ring be a symbol of my promises to you and a reminder of my devotion to you. I am honored to call you my wife/husband.
Name, please place this ring on Name’s finger and repeat after me:
Let this ring be a symbol of my promises to you and a reminder of my devotion to you. I am honored to call you my husband/wife.
Final Words
Now you will feel no rain, for each of you will be shelter for the other. Now you will feel no cold, for each of you will be warmth to the other. Now there will be no loneliness, for each of you will be a companion to the other. Now you are two persons, but there is only one life before you. Treat yourselves and each other with respect, patience, and compassion, and remind yourselves often of what brought you together. Give the highest priority to the tenderness, gentleness, and kindness that your love deserves. If each of you takes responsibility for the quality of your life together, it will be marked by abundance and delight. May beauty surround you both in the journey ahead and through all the years. May happiness be your companion and your days together be good and long upon the earth. Go now and enter into the days of your life together.
Pronouncement
Name and Name, you have each betrothed yourself to the other in love and compassion, and you have taken upon yourselves the responsibilities of a profound and loving friendship. In the presence of these witnesses and in keeping with tradition, you have spoken the words and performed rites that have united your lives. Having so affirmed, I now pronounce that you are husband and wife.
You may seal this marriage with a kiss!
Ladies and gentlemen, it is my great pleasure to present, for the first time ...
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Wedding Ceremony Script 2
A formal, traditional, non-religious ceremony
A formal, traditional, non-religious ceremony
This is an outline of all of the parts of a formal ceremony. You can use it as it is or you can choose a different option for each part. You may choose scripture or poetry for one of the readings - or simple remove the readings. You can choose different vows, ring exchanges and unity ceremonies.
Announce an Unplugged Ceremony
Ladies and Gentlemen, thank you for joining us today. At this time, I request that you silence your phones and refrain from taking pictures during the ceremony. Please take these few moments to be fully present with them as they make their vows and are joined in their new life together. There will be plenty of time for you to capture the moment as the evening progresses. Thank you! Let the wedding begin…
The Bride (and/or Groom) is escorted down the aisle.
Traditionally the Bride is escorted by her father, but it can be anyone or no one. An escort is not required.
At this point it the bride and her father wish it, we ask:
Who gives/ presents this woman to be married?
Father (or whomever escorted her) responds:
Her mother and I do.
Or something similar
Officiant Continues:
.
Please be seated.
Welcoming
Welcome! We are gathered here today to celebrate and to witness the joining of Bride and Groom in marriage.As they promise to love, trust in that love, honor one another as individuals, and anticipate with joy spending the rest of their lives together. They, are surrounded by you - their friends and family. Thank you for gathering here to witness their marriage and to share in the joy of this special occasion.
A Moment of Silence
This is optional:
We’d like to take a moment to remember those who are not with us here today. Those who were unable to be here and those who have gone on to greater things. We know that they are here with us in spirit.
You can name specific people here if you like or just keep it general.
(Moment of Silence)
This is usually just one deep breath
Bride and Groom, Today, as you two are joined in marriage, there is a vast and unknown future stretching out before you. The possibilities and potentials of your married life are great. We join with you in hoping you make real your dreams! That you are reborn in each other as you share your loves and dreams, wants and desires and together are enriched by them. Through your commitment to each other, may you grow and nurture a love that makes both of you better people, a love that continues to give you great joy, and also a passion for living that provides you with energy and patience to face the responsibilities of life.There was a time when your lives were two separate paths. Gradually, they were joined as you grew closer together. Today, you proclaim to the world your choice to stay on the same path together. May you be enriched by the unique view of the other!
The first reading is:
(Readings are an option. You can switch them out or delete them.)
Why Marriage?
By Mari Nichols- Haining.
Because to the depths of me, I long to love one person,
With all my heart, my soul, my mind, my body...
Because I need a forever friend to trust with the intimacies of me,
Who won't hold them against me,
Who loves me when I'm unlikable,
Who sees the small child in me, and
Who looks for the divine potential of me...
Because I need to cuddle in the warmth of the night
With someone who thanks God for me,
With someone I feel blessed to hold...
Because marriage means opportunity
To grow in love in friendship...
Because marriage is a discipline
To be added to a list of achievements...
Because marriages do not fail, people fail
When they enter into marriage
Expecting another to make them whole...
Because, knowing this,
I promise myself to take full responsibility
For my spiritual, mental and physical wholeness
I create me,
I take half of the responsibility for my marriage
Together we create our marriage...
Because with this understanding
The possibilities are limitless.
The Second Reading is
From "Union"
by Robert Fulghum
"You have known each other from the first glance of acquaintance to this point of commitment. At some point, you decided to marry. From that moment of yes to this moment of yes, indeed, you have been making promises and agreements in an informal way. All those conversations that were held riding in a car or over a meal or during long walks - all those sentences that began with "When we're married" and continued with "I will and you will and we will" - those late night talks that included "someday and somehow and maybe"- and all those promises that are unspoken matters of the heart. All these common things, and more, are the real process of a wedding. The symbolic vows that you are about to make are a way of saying to one another, "You know all those things we've promised and hoped and dreamed- well, I meant it all, every word." Look at one another and remember this moment in time. Before this moment you have been many things to one another- acquaintance, friend, companion, lover, dancing partner, and even teacher, for you have learned much from one another in these last few years. Now you shall say a few words that take you across a threshold of life, and things will never quite be the same between you. For after these vows, you shall say to the world, this- is my husband, this- is my wife”
Vows
There are called the declaration of intent, or the I do's. They are the one question you HAVE to answer during any wedding ceremony in order to make your marriage legal.
Do you Groom, take Bride, to be your wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do you part.
Groom: I do.
Do you Bride take Groom, to be your husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do you part.
Bride: I do.
You can add personal vows here
Ring Exchange
The rings please…
The rings are the universal symbols of marriage. They mean many things. From now on you will wear these rings and they will remind you... They will remind you of the endless circle that they are. Like love, there is no beginning and no end. They will remind you daily that you are married. Sometimes they will remind you of the commitment that you have made - for better or worse. But, may they always remind you that there is one other person in the world that has pledged to love you forever, through thick and through thin and with all that they have.
please repeat after me....
Bride, I give you this ring with all that I am and all that I ever will be. Wear it and know that I love you. With this ring, I marry you.
Groom, I give you this ring with all that I am and all that I ever will be. Wear it and know that I love you. With this ring, I marry you.
Unity Ceremony - Optional
This is the Hand Ceremony
And now as you are holding hands take a moment, so that you may see the gift that you are to each other.
These are the hands of your best friend, young and strong and full of love for you, that are holding yours on your wedding day as you promise to love each other today, tomorrow and forever.
These are the hands that will work alongside yours as together you build your future.
These are the hands that will countless times wipe the tears from your eyes, tears of sorrow and tears of joy.
These are the hands that will give you support and encouragement to chase down your dreams.
These are the hands that will give you strength when you need it.
These are the hands that will lift your chin and brush your cheek as they raise your face to look into eyes that are filled with overwhelming love for you.
And lastly, these are the hands that even when wrinkled and aged will still be reaching for yours, still giving you the same unspoken tenderness with just a touch.
Final Blessing
Life and love are the greatest gifts bestowed upon humanity.
May your union grant you patience, tolerance, and understanding
as well as the passion and excitement every marriage should possess.
May you need one another, but not out of weakness.
May you want one another, but not out of lack.
May you support one another, as a sign of mutual independence.
May you continually rediscover your love in one another, as the greatest gift of all.
Pronouncement
And now, it is my great pleasure to acknowledge your union as “Husband and Wife.”
You may now seal your marriage with a kiss!!! (Or you may kiss the Bride!)
Ladies and Gentlemen, It is my pleasure to introduce to you: ...............................
Ladies and Gentlemen, thank you for joining us today. At this time, I request that you silence your phones and refrain from taking pictures during the ceremony. Please take these few moments to be fully present with them as they make their vows and are joined in their new life together. There will be plenty of time for you to capture the moment as the evening progresses. Thank you! Let the wedding begin…
The Bride (and/or Groom) is escorted down the aisle.
Traditionally the Bride is escorted by her father, but it can be anyone or no one. An escort is not required.
At this point it the bride and her father wish it, we ask:
Who gives/ presents this woman to be married?
Father (or whomever escorted her) responds:
Her mother and I do.
Or something similar
Officiant Continues:
.
Please be seated.
Welcoming
Welcome! We are gathered here today to celebrate and to witness the joining of Bride and Groom in marriage.As they promise to love, trust in that love, honor one another as individuals, and anticipate with joy spending the rest of their lives together. They, are surrounded by you - their friends and family. Thank you for gathering here to witness their marriage and to share in the joy of this special occasion.
A Moment of Silence
This is optional:
We’d like to take a moment to remember those who are not with us here today. Those who were unable to be here and those who have gone on to greater things. We know that they are here with us in spirit.
You can name specific people here if you like or just keep it general.
(Moment of Silence)
This is usually just one deep breath
Bride and Groom, Today, as you two are joined in marriage, there is a vast and unknown future stretching out before you. The possibilities and potentials of your married life are great. We join with you in hoping you make real your dreams! That you are reborn in each other as you share your loves and dreams, wants and desires and together are enriched by them. Through your commitment to each other, may you grow and nurture a love that makes both of you better people, a love that continues to give you great joy, and also a passion for living that provides you with energy and patience to face the responsibilities of life.There was a time when your lives were two separate paths. Gradually, they were joined as you grew closer together. Today, you proclaim to the world your choice to stay on the same path together. May you be enriched by the unique view of the other!
The first reading is:
(Readings are an option. You can switch them out or delete them.)
Why Marriage?
By Mari Nichols- Haining.
Because to the depths of me, I long to love one person,
With all my heart, my soul, my mind, my body...
Because I need a forever friend to trust with the intimacies of me,
Who won't hold them against me,
Who loves me when I'm unlikable,
Who sees the small child in me, and
Who looks for the divine potential of me...
Because I need to cuddle in the warmth of the night
With someone who thanks God for me,
With someone I feel blessed to hold...
Because marriage means opportunity
To grow in love in friendship...
Because marriage is a discipline
To be added to a list of achievements...
Because marriages do not fail, people fail
When they enter into marriage
Expecting another to make them whole...
Because, knowing this,
I promise myself to take full responsibility
For my spiritual, mental and physical wholeness
I create me,
I take half of the responsibility for my marriage
Together we create our marriage...
Because with this understanding
The possibilities are limitless.
The Second Reading is
From "Union"
by Robert Fulghum
"You have known each other from the first glance of acquaintance to this point of commitment. At some point, you decided to marry. From that moment of yes to this moment of yes, indeed, you have been making promises and agreements in an informal way. All those conversations that were held riding in a car or over a meal or during long walks - all those sentences that began with "When we're married" and continued with "I will and you will and we will" - those late night talks that included "someday and somehow and maybe"- and all those promises that are unspoken matters of the heart. All these common things, and more, are the real process of a wedding. The symbolic vows that you are about to make are a way of saying to one another, "You know all those things we've promised and hoped and dreamed- well, I meant it all, every word." Look at one another and remember this moment in time. Before this moment you have been many things to one another- acquaintance, friend, companion, lover, dancing partner, and even teacher, for you have learned much from one another in these last few years. Now you shall say a few words that take you across a threshold of life, and things will never quite be the same between you. For after these vows, you shall say to the world, this- is my husband, this- is my wife”
Vows
There are called the declaration of intent, or the I do's. They are the one question you HAVE to answer during any wedding ceremony in order to make your marriage legal.
Do you Groom, take Bride, to be your wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do you part.
Groom: I do.
Do you Bride take Groom, to be your husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do you part.
Bride: I do.
You can add personal vows here
Ring Exchange
The rings please…
The rings are the universal symbols of marriage. They mean many things. From now on you will wear these rings and they will remind you... They will remind you of the endless circle that they are. Like love, there is no beginning and no end. They will remind you daily that you are married. Sometimes they will remind you of the commitment that you have made - for better or worse. But, may they always remind you that there is one other person in the world that has pledged to love you forever, through thick and through thin and with all that they have.
please repeat after me....
Bride, I give you this ring with all that I am and all that I ever will be. Wear it and know that I love you. With this ring, I marry you.
Groom, I give you this ring with all that I am and all that I ever will be. Wear it and know that I love you. With this ring, I marry you.
Unity Ceremony - Optional
This is the Hand Ceremony
And now as you are holding hands take a moment, so that you may see the gift that you are to each other.
These are the hands of your best friend, young and strong and full of love for you, that are holding yours on your wedding day as you promise to love each other today, tomorrow and forever.
These are the hands that will work alongside yours as together you build your future.
These are the hands that will countless times wipe the tears from your eyes, tears of sorrow and tears of joy.
These are the hands that will give you support and encouragement to chase down your dreams.
These are the hands that will give you strength when you need it.
These are the hands that will lift your chin and brush your cheek as they raise your face to look into eyes that are filled with overwhelming love for you.
And lastly, these are the hands that even when wrinkled and aged will still be reaching for yours, still giving you the same unspoken tenderness with just a touch.
Final Blessing
Life and love are the greatest gifts bestowed upon humanity.
May your union grant you patience, tolerance, and understanding
as well as the passion and excitement every marriage should possess.
May you need one another, but not out of weakness.
May you want one another, but not out of lack.
May you support one another, as a sign of mutual independence.
May you continually rediscover your love in one another, as the greatest gift of all.
Pronouncement
And now, it is my great pleasure to acknowledge your union as “Husband and Wife.”
You may now seal your marriage with a kiss!!! (Or you may kiss the Bride!)
Ladies and Gentlemen, It is my pleasure to introduce to you: ...............................
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Wedding Ceremony 3
A Modern Romantic Ceremony Script
A Modern Romantic Ceremony Script
Ladies and gentlemen, thank you so much for joining us today. Before we begin the ceremony, I’d like to ask you to refrain from sharing anything about the ceremony on social media until the reception. Bride and Groom are coming together today in the celebration of their marriage and would like the focus at this time to be on the ceremony. Thank you. Let us begin!
The Bride (or Groom) is escorted down the aisle.
Traditionally the Bride is escorted by her father, but it can be anyone or no one. An escort is not required.
At this point it the bride and her father wish it, we ask:
Who gives/ presents this woman to be married?
Father (or whomever escorted her) responds:
Her mother and I do.
Or something similar
Officiant Continues:
Please be seated.
Today is a celebration. A celebration of love, of commitment, of friendship, of family, and of two people who are in it for forever.
You don't have to have a ceremony to have a marriage. And when you think about it, the whole thing is kind of weird, right? You're standing on a stage, looking fancy, holding flowers, and being stared at by pretty much everyone who has meant anything to you in the past twenty-something years. So why do we do it? The marriage ceremony has been an important feature across nearly every culture, religion, generation, and society. We have thousands of important moments that happen throughout our lives, but this one is regarded as one so critical, we acknowledge its special status by sharing it with others.
Why this moment? Why does this one matter beyond all the rest?
Because despite all of our differences, love is what we all share. It's the great unifier — our one universal truth. That no matter who we are, where we've come from, what we believe, we know this one thing: love is what we're doing right. That's why you both are standing here. That's why you all are here to watch them stand up here. We have all loved in our lifetimes, and in this moment, we're reminded that the ability to love is the very best part of our humanity
All of us here today have our own love stories. Some are short, others long. Some are yet unwritten, while others are just getting to the good part. There are chapters in all of our stories that are sad or disappointing — and others that are exciting and full of adventure.
You can add personal information about you and your relationship. Here are some prompts to help you brainstorm:
What are some pivotal moments in your relationship?
What was your first official date or favorite date?
Tell me about the first time you met.
When did you fall in love?
Why do you want to get married?
Favorite way to spend the day together?
And that brings them here. A time to pause, look back, and smile at all the moments that brought them here. And a time to look ahead at all the moments that are still to come.
I'm here — we're all here — because we want those moments for you. We're here to hope with you, to support you, to be proud of you, and to remind you that love isn't happily ever after, love is the experience of writing your story. It's not one moment — not even this moment. It's every moment. Big ones like saying "I love you," moving in together, getting engaged — but mostly a million little ones that come in between the big moments. **** You can personalize this part...Falling asleep next to one another, making dinner together, spending holidays with your families, binge-watching Netflix shows, getting a big hug when you get home from work… These everyday moments fuse together into one big experience. And even though this experience is so incredible, words fail us when we try and explain it. That's just the way it is with love — it's meant to be felt, not described.
But trying to describe love is one of our favorite pastimes. We use the words we have to write stories, and poems, and songs about love. And even though we describe love in different ways — and even though love can look different from one person to the next — we all know it when we see it. And we see it here.
You fell in love by chance, but you're here today because you're making a choice. You both are choosing each other. You've chosen to be with someone who enhances you, who makes you think, makes you smile, and makes every day brighter.
You're about to make promises to each other that you intend to keep. You're going to vow to take care of each other, to stand up for one another, and find happiness in the other. There's a simple premise to each of these promises: you're vowing to be there. You're teaming up and saying to the other, "Every experience I am going to have, I want you to be a part of."
Vows
Will you, Groom, keep Bride as your favorite person — to laugh with her, go on adventures with her, support her through life's tough moments, be proud of her, grow old with her, and find new reasons to love her every day?
Groom: I will.
Will you, Bride, keep Groom as your favorite person — to laugh with him, go on adventures with him, support him through life's tough moments, be proud of him, grow old with him, and find new reasons to love him every day?
Bride: I will.
Will you, Bride and Groom, be each other's partners from this day forward? Will you bring out the best in one another, share your happiest moments together, and love each other absolutely — for the rest of this lifetime and for whatever may come next?
Bride and Groom: We will.
Ring Exchange
May we have the rings please?
You’ve both chosen to wear rings as a reminder of these promises. People often say wedding bands are a perfect circle, with no beginning and no end. But these rings did have a beginning. The stones were formed a long time ago deep with the earth. Eventually, a series of lucky events caused them to rise to the surface, where someone dug them up. Metal was then liquefied in a furnace at a thousand degrees — molded, cooled, and painstakingly polished. Something beautiful was made from raw elements. Love is like that. It comes from humble beginnings, and through a combination of serendipity and effort, imperfect beings shape it into something extraordinary. It’s the process of making something beautiful where there was once nothing at all. As you look at these rings over the years, I hope you remember that. You’ve created something invaluable, and just as I know you’ll protect these rings, I’m confident you’ll protect the commitments you’ve made to one other today.
Groom, as you place the ring on Bride's finger, please repeat after me: Bride, I give you this ring as symbol of my love and lifelong devotion, wear it and know that I love you.
Bride, as you place the ring on Groom's finger, please repeat after me: Groom, I give you this ring as symbol of my love and lifelong devotion, wear it and know that I love you.
You can add a unity ceremony here, if you like.
(Links to Unity Ceremonies)
Final Words
May your marriage be filled with love. May your admiration, appreciation, and understanding of each other foster a love that is passionate, tranquil, and real. May this love between you be strong and enduring, and bring peace into your lives.
May you have a loving home filled with warmth, humor, and compassion. May you create a family together that honors traditions old and new. May you teach your children to have equal respect for themselves and others, and instill in them the value of learning and making the world a better place.
May you be best friends and work together to build a relationship of substance and quality. May your sense of humor and playful spirit continue to enliven your relationship. May you respect each other’s individual personality and perspective, and give each other room to grow in fulfilling your dreams.
May you grow older and wiser together. May you continually learn from one another and from the world. Together, may you grow, deepening your knowledge and understanding of each other and of your journey through life.
May you live and long and healthy life. May life bring you wholeness of mind, body, and spirit. May you keep each other well-balanced and grounded, and live long that you may share many happy years together.
May your life be filled with the art and beauty of this world. May your creative aspirations and experiences find expression, inspire you, and bring you joy and fulfillment. May you find happiness together in adventures big and small, and something to celebrate each day of your lives.
May you be an intricate part of your community. May you always be blessed with the awareness that you are an essential part of a circle of family and friends. May there always be within this group love, trust, support, and laughter, and may there be many future occasions for rejoicing in their company.
And now, by the power vested in me by the state of Indiana I now pronounce you Husband and wife!
You may kiss your bride!!
Mr. and Mrs. .....!!
The Bride (or Groom) is escorted down the aisle.
Traditionally the Bride is escorted by her father, but it can be anyone or no one. An escort is not required.
At this point it the bride and her father wish it, we ask:
Who gives/ presents this woman to be married?
Father (or whomever escorted her) responds:
Her mother and I do.
Or something similar
Officiant Continues:
Please be seated.
Today is a celebration. A celebration of love, of commitment, of friendship, of family, and of two people who are in it for forever.
You don't have to have a ceremony to have a marriage. And when you think about it, the whole thing is kind of weird, right? You're standing on a stage, looking fancy, holding flowers, and being stared at by pretty much everyone who has meant anything to you in the past twenty-something years. So why do we do it? The marriage ceremony has been an important feature across nearly every culture, religion, generation, and society. We have thousands of important moments that happen throughout our lives, but this one is regarded as one so critical, we acknowledge its special status by sharing it with others.
Why this moment? Why does this one matter beyond all the rest?
Because despite all of our differences, love is what we all share. It's the great unifier — our one universal truth. That no matter who we are, where we've come from, what we believe, we know this one thing: love is what we're doing right. That's why you both are standing here. That's why you all are here to watch them stand up here. We have all loved in our lifetimes, and in this moment, we're reminded that the ability to love is the very best part of our humanity
All of us here today have our own love stories. Some are short, others long. Some are yet unwritten, while others are just getting to the good part. There are chapters in all of our stories that are sad or disappointing — and others that are exciting and full of adventure.
You can add personal information about you and your relationship. Here are some prompts to help you brainstorm:
What are some pivotal moments in your relationship?
What was your first official date or favorite date?
Tell me about the first time you met.
When did you fall in love?
Why do you want to get married?
Favorite way to spend the day together?
And that brings them here. A time to pause, look back, and smile at all the moments that brought them here. And a time to look ahead at all the moments that are still to come.
I'm here — we're all here — because we want those moments for you. We're here to hope with you, to support you, to be proud of you, and to remind you that love isn't happily ever after, love is the experience of writing your story. It's not one moment — not even this moment. It's every moment. Big ones like saying "I love you," moving in together, getting engaged — but mostly a million little ones that come in between the big moments. **** You can personalize this part...Falling asleep next to one another, making dinner together, spending holidays with your families, binge-watching Netflix shows, getting a big hug when you get home from work… These everyday moments fuse together into one big experience. And even though this experience is so incredible, words fail us when we try and explain it. That's just the way it is with love — it's meant to be felt, not described.
But trying to describe love is one of our favorite pastimes. We use the words we have to write stories, and poems, and songs about love. And even though we describe love in different ways — and even though love can look different from one person to the next — we all know it when we see it. And we see it here.
You fell in love by chance, but you're here today because you're making a choice. You both are choosing each other. You've chosen to be with someone who enhances you, who makes you think, makes you smile, and makes every day brighter.
You're about to make promises to each other that you intend to keep. You're going to vow to take care of each other, to stand up for one another, and find happiness in the other. There's a simple premise to each of these promises: you're vowing to be there. You're teaming up and saying to the other, "Every experience I am going to have, I want you to be a part of."
Vows
Will you, Groom, keep Bride as your favorite person — to laugh with her, go on adventures with her, support her through life's tough moments, be proud of her, grow old with her, and find new reasons to love her every day?
Groom: I will.
Will you, Bride, keep Groom as your favorite person — to laugh with him, go on adventures with him, support him through life's tough moments, be proud of him, grow old with him, and find new reasons to love him every day?
Bride: I will.
Will you, Bride and Groom, be each other's partners from this day forward? Will you bring out the best in one another, share your happiest moments together, and love each other absolutely — for the rest of this lifetime and for whatever may come next?
Bride and Groom: We will.
Ring Exchange
May we have the rings please?
You’ve both chosen to wear rings as a reminder of these promises. People often say wedding bands are a perfect circle, with no beginning and no end. But these rings did have a beginning. The stones were formed a long time ago deep with the earth. Eventually, a series of lucky events caused them to rise to the surface, where someone dug them up. Metal was then liquefied in a furnace at a thousand degrees — molded, cooled, and painstakingly polished. Something beautiful was made from raw elements. Love is like that. It comes from humble beginnings, and through a combination of serendipity and effort, imperfect beings shape it into something extraordinary. It’s the process of making something beautiful where there was once nothing at all. As you look at these rings over the years, I hope you remember that. You’ve created something invaluable, and just as I know you’ll protect these rings, I’m confident you’ll protect the commitments you’ve made to one other today.
Groom, as you place the ring on Bride's finger, please repeat after me: Bride, I give you this ring as symbol of my love and lifelong devotion, wear it and know that I love you.
Bride, as you place the ring on Groom's finger, please repeat after me: Groom, I give you this ring as symbol of my love and lifelong devotion, wear it and know that I love you.
You can add a unity ceremony here, if you like.
(Links to Unity Ceremonies)
Final Words
May your marriage be filled with love. May your admiration, appreciation, and understanding of each other foster a love that is passionate, tranquil, and real. May this love between you be strong and enduring, and bring peace into your lives.
May you have a loving home filled with warmth, humor, and compassion. May you create a family together that honors traditions old and new. May you teach your children to have equal respect for themselves and others, and instill in them the value of learning and making the world a better place.
May you be best friends and work together to build a relationship of substance and quality. May your sense of humor and playful spirit continue to enliven your relationship. May you respect each other’s individual personality and perspective, and give each other room to grow in fulfilling your dreams.
May you grow older and wiser together. May you continually learn from one another and from the world. Together, may you grow, deepening your knowledge and understanding of each other and of your journey through life.
May you live and long and healthy life. May life bring you wholeness of mind, body, and spirit. May you keep each other well-balanced and grounded, and live long that you may share many happy years together.
May your life be filled with the art and beauty of this world. May your creative aspirations and experiences find expression, inspire you, and bring you joy and fulfillment. May you find happiness together in adventures big and small, and something to celebrate each day of your lives.
May you be an intricate part of your community. May you always be blessed with the awareness that you are an essential part of a circle of family and friends. May there always be within this group love, trust, support, and laughter, and may there be many future occasions for rejoicing in their company.
And now, by the power vested in me by the state of Indiana I now pronounce you Husband and wife!
You may kiss your bride!!
Mr. and Mrs. .....!!
~~~~~~~~~~
Wedding Ceremony Script 4
Short and Sweet, Non-Religious, Ceremony
Short and Sweet, Non-Religious, Ceremony
Welcome
Welcome! We are gathered here today to celebrate and to witness the joining of Bride and Groom in marriage. As they promise to love, trust in that love, honor one another as individuals, and anticipate with joy spending the rest of their lives together. They are surrounded by you - their friends and family. Thank you for gathering here to witness their marriage and to share in the joy of this special occasion.
Words about Love and Marriage
Bride and Groom, Today, as you two are joined in marriage, there is a vast and unknown future stretching out before you. The possibilities and potentials of your married life are great. We join with you in hoping you make real your dreams! That you are reborn in each other as you share your loves and dreams, wants and desires and together are enriched by them. Through your commitment to each other, may you grow and nurture a love that makes both of you better people, a love that continues to give you great joy, and also a passion for living that provides you with energy and patience to face the responsibilities of life.There was a time when your lives were two separate paths. Gradually, they were joined as you grew closer together. Today, you proclaim to the world your choice to stay on the same path together. May you be enriched by the unique view of the other!
As you go forward, remember that happiness in marriage is not something that just happens. A good marriage must be created. In marriage, the little things are the big things. Simple things like never being too old to hold hands or remembering to say “I love you” at least once a day. Your courtship should not end with the honeymoon, it should continue through all the years with date nights and small gestures. Remember not to take one another for granted. Marriage is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives. It is standing and facing the world together and forming a circle of love that gathers in the whole family. Do things for each other, not in the attitude of duty or sacrifice, but in the spirit of joy. Speak words of appreciation and demonstrate gratitude in thoughtful ways. Be flexible, patient and understanding. And definitely keep a sense of humor! Forgive and forget the best you can. Remembering finding perfection in each other is what you consider perfect, keep searching for the good and the beautiful Help and encourage each other to grow. Balance your independence from each other with your dependence on each other. Remember it is not only marrying the right partner, it is being the right partner.
Vows
Do you Groom, take Bride, to be your wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do you part.
Groom: I do.
Do you Bride take Groom, to be your husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do you part.
Bride: I do.
Ring Exchange
The rings are the universal symbols of marriage. They mean many things. From now on you will wear these rings and they will remind you... They will remind you of the endless circle that they are. Like love, there is no beginning and no end. They will remind you daily that you are married. Sometimes they will remind you of the commitment that you have made - for better or worse. But, may they always remind you that there is one other person in the world that has pledged to love you forever, through thick and through thin and with all that they have.
please repeat after me....
Bride, I give you this ring with all that I am and all that I ever will be. Wear it and know that I love you. With this ring, I marry you.
Groom, I give you this ring with all that I am and all that I ever will be. Wear it and know that I love you. With this ring, I marry you.
And now as you are holding hands take a moment, so that you may see the gift that you are to each other.
These are the hands of your best friend, young and strong and full of love for you, that are holding yours on your wedding day as you promise to love each other today, tomorrow and forever.
These are the hands that will work alongside yours as together you build your future.
These are the hands that will countless times wipe the tears from your eyes, tears of sorrow and tears of joy.
These are the hands that will give you support and encouragement to chase down your dreams.
These are the hands that will give you strength when you need it.
These are the hands that will lift your chin and brush your cheek as they raise your face to look into eyes that are filled with overwhelming love for you.
And lastly, these are the hands that even when wrinkled and aged will still be reaching for yours, still giving you the same unspoken tenderness with just a touch.
Final Blessing
Life and love are the greatest gifts bestowed upon humanity.
May your union grant you patience, tolerance, and understanding
as well as the passion and excitement every marriage should possess.
May you need one another, but not out of weakness.
May you want one another, but not out of lack.
May you support one another, as a sign of mutual independence.
May you continually rediscover your love in one another, as the greatest gift of all.
Pronouncement
And now, it is my great pleasure to acknowledge your union as Husband and Wife!
Welcome! We are gathered here today to celebrate and to witness the joining of Bride and Groom in marriage. As they promise to love, trust in that love, honor one another as individuals, and anticipate with joy spending the rest of their lives together. They are surrounded by you - their friends and family. Thank you for gathering here to witness their marriage and to share in the joy of this special occasion.
Words about Love and Marriage
Bride and Groom, Today, as you two are joined in marriage, there is a vast and unknown future stretching out before you. The possibilities and potentials of your married life are great. We join with you in hoping you make real your dreams! That you are reborn in each other as you share your loves and dreams, wants and desires and together are enriched by them. Through your commitment to each other, may you grow and nurture a love that makes both of you better people, a love that continues to give you great joy, and also a passion for living that provides you with energy and patience to face the responsibilities of life.There was a time when your lives were two separate paths. Gradually, they were joined as you grew closer together. Today, you proclaim to the world your choice to stay on the same path together. May you be enriched by the unique view of the other!
As you go forward, remember that happiness in marriage is not something that just happens. A good marriage must be created. In marriage, the little things are the big things. Simple things like never being too old to hold hands or remembering to say “I love you” at least once a day. Your courtship should not end with the honeymoon, it should continue through all the years with date nights and small gestures. Remember not to take one another for granted. Marriage is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives. It is standing and facing the world together and forming a circle of love that gathers in the whole family. Do things for each other, not in the attitude of duty or sacrifice, but in the spirit of joy. Speak words of appreciation and demonstrate gratitude in thoughtful ways. Be flexible, patient and understanding. And definitely keep a sense of humor! Forgive and forget the best you can. Remembering finding perfection in each other is what you consider perfect, keep searching for the good and the beautiful Help and encourage each other to grow. Balance your independence from each other with your dependence on each other. Remember it is not only marrying the right partner, it is being the right partner.
Vows
Do you Groom, take Bride, to be your wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do you part.
Groom: I do.
Do you Bride take Groom, to be your husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do you part.
Bride: I do.
Ring Exchange
The rings are the universal symbols of marriage. They mean many things. From now on you will wear these rings and they will remind you... They will remind you of the endless circle that they are. Like love, there is no beginning and no end. They will remind you daily that you are married. Sometimes they will remind you of the commitment that you have made - for better or worse. But, may they always remind you that there is one other person in the world that has pledged to love you forever, through thick and through thin and with all that they have.
please repeat after me....
Bride, I give you this ring with all that I am and all that I ever will be. Wear it and know that I love you. With this ring, I marry you.
Groom, I give you this ring with all that I am and all that I ever will be. Wear it and know that I love you. With this ring, I marry you.
And now as you are holding hands take a moment, so that you may see the gift that you are to each other.
These are the hands of your best friend, young and strong and full of love for you, that are holding yours on your wedding day as you promise to love each other today, tomorrow and forever.
These are the hands that will work alongside yours as together you build your future.
These are the hands that will countless times wipe the tears from your eyes, tears of sorrow and tears of joy.
These are the hands that will give you support and encouragement to chase down your dreams.
These are the hands that will give you strength when you need it.
These are the hands that will lift your chin and brush your cheek as they raise your face to look into eyes that are filled with overwhelming love for you.
And lastly, these are the hands that even when wrinkled and aged will still be reaching for yours, still giving you the same unspoken tenderness with just a touch.
Final Blessing
Life and love are the greatest gifts bestowed upon humanity.
May your union grant you patience, tolerance, and understanding
as well as the passion and excitement every marriage should possess.
May you need one another, but not out of weakness.
May you want one another, but not out of lack.
May you support one another, as a sign of mutual independence.
May you continually rediscover your love in one another, as the greatest gift of all.
Pronouncement
And now, it is my great pleasure to acknowledge your union as Husband and Wife!
Wedding Ceremony Script 5
Christian-Lite Ceremony with an opening prayer and Christian themes
Christian-Lite Ceremony with an opening prayer and Christian themes
The Bride (or Groom) is escorted down the aisle.
Traditionally the Bride is escorted by her father, but it can be anyone or no one. An escort is not required.
At this point it the bride and her father wish it, we ask:
Who gives/ presents this woman to be married?
Father (or whomever escorted her) responds:
Her mother and I do.
Or something similar
Opening Prayer
O God, Creator of us all, we thank you for the gift of life and on
this day we thank you especially for the joy that Bride and Groom
have found in each other, and for the promises they will make before you.
Bless all of our families and friends who are present with us on this special occasion.
We also remember those who couldn't be here today, particularly (you can name people here if you like)
We pray, O God, that you remain with Bride and
Groom as a partner in their marriage. Grant to them, and to us all,
love and understanding all of our days. Amen
Please Be seated.
Welcome! Thank you for joining us here today, for coming from far and wide to celebrate the joining together in marriage of Bride and groom . We gather here today to celebrate their union, and to honor their commitment to not just gazing at one another, but to looking outward together in the same direction. Bride and Groom proclaim their love to the world, and we are happy for them.
We have come here as a community of family and friends to love and support the two of you. To witness your entrance into the sacred and joyous covenant of marriage, and to celebrate the beginning of your journey together as husband and wife.
We are all happy that you have found each other And that through each other, You have come to know the power of love. We celebrate your union of hearts, minds, bodies, and souls. And wish you great joy and a loving and happy marriage.
Declaration of Support
In marriage, we give ourselves freely and generously into the hands of the one we love, and in doing so, each of us receives the love and trust of the other as our most precious gift. But even as that gift is shared by two people who are in love, it also touches the friends and family members who in various ways support and contribute to the relationship. All of you are Bride and Groom's community, and each of you has played some part in bringing them to this moment. This is why gathering as a community is such an important part of a wedding ceremony. Because they are now taking a new form as a married couple, and in this form, they become part of their community in a new way. Today we have come together to celebrate the love you have found with each other. By being here with you, Each of us is declaring our support For your decision to join together in marriage.
As families and friends, all of you here form their community of support That surrounds Them. Each of you, by your presence here today, Is being called upon to uphold them In honoring and loving each other. Always stand beside them, Never between them. Offer them your love and support, Not your judgment. Encourage them with your kindness and loving hearts, And honor this marriage into which they have come to be joined today.
Marriage is the ultimate relationship because it offers the opportunity of limitless intimacy between two people. It is a great and challenging adventure into the depths and heights of human caring, Affection, trust and understanding. Today as you make your vows, your lives are intermingled As the waters of two streams become one, Flowing together into a mighty river.
Marriage is a journey of transformation into the profound mysteries of life and creation. In marriage, two become one and, the two of you together is much greater than the simple sum of your parts. In marriage, We do not give ourselves to another, But rather surrender into something greater. We surrender to love itself. Today, you step into a much fuller experience and expression of the mysteries and miracles of love.
Your precious union is lovely in its innocence, Mighty in its strength, And abundant with possibilities. It belongs to you both. Over time you will give it identity. We wish for you the wisdom, strength of character, and divine creativity To make this a happy marriage, A safe harbor. And a joyful journey to share.
Bride and Groom, as you prepare to take your vows. I would like to remind you of the words of 1 Corinthians. It tells us that Love is patient and kind. So be patient and loving with each other. Love does not envy, it does not boast, and it is not proud. With that in mind, promise to build each other up, encouraging each other in all that you do. Love is neither rude nor self-seeking, so remember to be kind and look out for one another. Love is not easily angered and it keeps no record of wrongs. So, remember to forgive and forget. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
When asking the question, why do we marry? The book of Ecclesiastes reminds us that two are better than one because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. Natalie and Michael, remember that your marriage, your love, and the source of your love will always be there for your both
Vows
Do you Groom, take Bride to be your wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do you part?
Groom: I do
Do you Bride, take Groom to be your husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do you part?
Bride: I do
Ring Exchange
Me we have the rings please...
The ring is a circle... an ancient symbol of eternity and completeness, so perfect, with no beginning and no end, for love that is given comes back around again.
Groom, as you place the ring on Bride's finger, please repeat after me: I give you this ring as a symbol of my enduring love and lifelong devotion. Wear it and know that I love you.
Bride, as you place the ring on Groom's finger, Please repeat after me: I give you this ring as a symbol of my enduring love and lifelong devotion. Wear it and know that I love you.
Please face each other and take each other’s hands, so that you may see the gift that they are to you.
These are the hands of your best friend, young and strong and full of love for you, that are holding yours on your wedding day as you promise to love each other today, tomorrow and forever.
These are the hands that will work alongside yours as together you build your future.
These are the hands that will countless times wipe the tears from your eyes, tears of sorrow and tears of joy.
These are the hands that will give you support and encouragement to chase down your dreams.
These are the hands that will give you strength when you need it.
These are the hands that will lift your chin and brush your cheek as they raise your face to look into eyes that are filled with overwhelming love for you.
And lastly, these are the hands that even when wrinkled and aged will still be reaching for yours, still giving you the same unspoken tenderness with just a touch.
Final Blessing
Bride and Groom, may you live happily ever after. May all your days be blessed with love and friendship. May each day and night of your lives be a new beginning. May your home be filled with laughter and the warm embrace of a summer day. May you find peacefulness and beauty, challenge, and satisfaction, humor and insight, healing and renewal, love and wisdom, as in a quiet heart. May you always feel that what you have is enough.
I now pronounce you Husband and wife!
You may kiss the bride!
Mr. and Mrs. ____________!
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Wedding Ceremony Script 6
Secular Humanist
Secular Humanist
Ladies and Gentlemen, Welcome to Bride and Groom's Wedding! I ask that you silence your phones and refrain from taking pictures during the wedding. There are professional photographers here to catch all the important moments. They will be happy to share those pictures with you when they are done. Thank you! Let’s begin.
The Bride (and/or Groom) is escorted down the aisle.
Traditionally the Bride is escorted by her father, but it can be anyone or no one. An escort is not required.
At this point it the bride and her father wish it, we ask:
Who gives/ presents this woman to be married?
Father (or whomever escorted her) responds:
Her mother and I do.
Or something similar
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Officiant Continues:
Please be seated.
Dear friends and family, we are gathered here today to witness and celebrate the union of Bride and Groom in marriage. In the years they have been together, their love and understanding of each other has grown and matured, and now they have decided to live their lives together as husband and wife.
Today you've gathered your friends and family together to celebrate this special day with you.
Throughout time, what people have found that is essential for a strong and long lasting relationship is that it be founded on love. Love is friendship, quiet understanding, mutual confidence, sharing and forgiving. It is loyalty through good times and bad. It settles for less than perfection and makes allowances for human weaknesses. Love is content with the present and hopes for the future, and it doesn't brood over the past. It is the chronicles of problems, compromises, small disappointments, big victories and common goals. If you have love in your life, it can make up for a great many things that you lack. If you don't have it, no matter what else is there, it isn't enough.
Reading
The reading will be a book passage from Carl Sagan
Consider our planet. On it, everyone you ever heard of, every human being who ever lived, lived out their lives. The aggregate of all our joys and sufferings, thousands of confident religions, ideologies and economic doctrines, every hunter and forager, every hero and coward, every creator and destroyer of civilizations, every king and peasant, every young couple in love, every hopeful child, every mother and father, every inventor and explorer, every teacher of morals, every corrupt politician, every superstar, every supreme leader, every saint and sinner in the history of our species lived here on a mote of dust, suspended in a sunbeam.
The earth is a very small stage in a vast cosmic arena. Once we lose our fear of being tiny, we find ourselves on the threshold of a vast and awesome Universe which dwarfs -- in time, in space, and in potential -- the tidy anthropocentric proscenium of our ancestors. And for small creatures such as we, this vastness is made bearable only through love.
Vows
This day represents so much for both of you. Of course, it is the day you begin your lives together as husband and wife. Your wedding is a public proclamation of your love, made here in front of your friends and family. But beyond that, and most importantly, you are here to make promises to each other, the promises that are the foundation of your marriage. Your vows are how you put your relationship into words- what it means today, and what it will mean for the rest of your lives.
Bride and Groom have written their own vows as promises to speak to one another.
You can also add vows of your choosing here if you choose not to write your own.
Ring Exchange
The ring is the symbol of the commitment which holds these two together. The wedding ring is the visible sign of an invisible bond which unites two hearts in love.
Bride and Groom, as you exchange these rings, may they be symbols of your promises to each other and remind you of your devotion. May you feel honored to call each other.... husband and wife.
may you remember that from this day the one you love is always beside you.
Closing
You came here today to affirm your love for one another and formally
acknowledge that which your hearts already knew…that your lives are meant to be shared as one, that you are stronger together than you are apart, and that, for all the days yet to come, you wish to share together all life’s joys and challenges, committed one to the other.
You have made this affirmation and commitment in the presence of the most important people in your lives.
May you forever feel that the life you share is the life you have always wanted.
I now pronounce you Husband and wife!
YOU MAY NOW KISS THE BRIDE!!!!!!
Ladies and gentlemen, it is my pleasure to present to you for the first time as husband and wife Bride and Groom!
The Bride (and/or Groom) is escorted down the aisle.
Traditionally the Bride is escorted by her father, but it can be anyone or no one. An escort is not required.
At this point it the bride and her father wish it, we ask:
Who gives/ presents this woman to be married?
Father (or whomever escorted her) responds:
Her mother and I do.
Or something similar
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Officiant Continues:
Please be seated.
Dear friends and family, we are gathered here today to witness and celebrate the union of Bride and Groom in marriage. In the years they have been together, their love and understanding of each other has grown and matured, and now they have decided to live their lives together as husband and wife.
Today you've gathered your friends and family together to celebrate this special day with you.
Throughout time, what people have found that is essential for a strong and long lasting relationship is that it be founded on love. Love is friendship, quiet understanding, mutual confidence, sharing and forgiving. It is loyalty through good times and bad. It settles for less than perfection and makes allowances for human weaknesses. Love is content with the present and hopes for the future, and it doesn't brood over the past. It is the chronicles of problems, compromises, small disappointments, big victories and common goals. If you have love in your life, it can make up for a great many things that you lack. If you don't have it, no matter what else is there, it isn't enough.
Reading
The reading will be a book passage from Carl Sagan
Consider our planet. On it, everyone you ever heard of, every human being who ever lived, lived out their lives. The aggregate of all our joys and sufferings, thousands of confident religions, ideologies and economic doctrines, every hunter and forager, every hero and coward, every creator and destroyer of civilizations, every king and peasant, every young couple in love, every hopeful child, every mother and father, every inventor and explorer, every teacher of morals, every corrupt politician, every superstar, every supreme leader, every saint and sinner in the history of our species lived here on a mote of dust, suspended in a sunbeam.
The earth is a very small stage in a vast cosmic arena. Once we lose our fear of being tiny, we find ourselves on the threshold of a vast and awesome Universe which dwarfs -- in time, in space, and in potential -- the tidy anthropocentric proscenium of our ancestors. And for small creatures such as we, this vastness is made bearable only through love.
Vows
This day represents so much for both of you. Of course, it is the day you begin your lives together as husband and wife. Your wedding is a public proclamation of your love, made here in front of your friends and family. But beyond that, and most importantly, you are here to make promises to each other, the promises that are the foundation of your marriage. Your vows are how you put your relationship into words- what it means today, and what it will mean for the rest of your lives.
Bride and Groom have written their own vows as promises to speak to one another.
You can also add vows of your choosing here if you choose not to write your own.
Ring Exchange
The ring is the symbol of the commitment which holds these two together. The wedding ring is the visible sign of an invisible bond which unites two hearts in love.
Bride and Groom, as you exchange these rings, may they be symbols of your promises to each other and remind you of your devotion. May you feel honored to call each other.... husband and wife.
may you remember that from this day the one you love is always beside you.
Closing
You came here today to affirm your love for one another and formally
acknowledge that which your hearts already knew…that your lives are meant to be shared as one, that you are stronger together than you are apart, and that, for all the days yet to come, you wish to share together all life’s joys and challenges, committed one to the other.
You have made this affirmation and commitment in the presence of the most important people in your lives.
May you forever feel that the life you share is the life you have always wanted.
I now pronounce you Husband and wife!
YOU MAY NOW KISS THE BRIDE!!!!!!
Ladies and gentlemen, it is my pleasure to present to you for the first time as husband and wife Bride and Groom!
Wedding Ceremony Script 7
Interfaith-Jewish Wedding Ceremony Script
Interfaith-Jewish Wedding Ceremony Script
Family, friends, honored guests, on behalf of Bride and Groom, I would like to warmly welcome you to the celebration of their marriage. They wish to express their gratitude for each of you who has chosen to be here today. During the ceremony this afternoon, we respectfully request that you silence and put away all cell phones and cameras so we can all be fully present in this moment. Thank you! Let us begin…
Welcome Everyone! Thank you for being here today to celebrate the marriage of Bride and Groom as they make their promises to each other and become husband and wife. In the ceremony they will be honoring some Jewish traditions.
They meet here first, under the chuppah. The chuppah is a canopy which sits atop four poles. The marriage ceremony takes place beneath this canopy, which is open on all sides, representing the couple's commitment to establish a home together that will always be open to guests .
There are veils in Jewish weddings - As in weddings of other faiths -They symbolize the idea of modesty and convey that however attractive physical appearances may be, the soul and character are paramount. With or without a veil, we remember this union is based on a mental, physical and spiritual commitment for a lifetime. Veils are also used to signal the groom's commitment to clothe and protect his wife. So Bride, you can take comfort in knowing no matter what, Groom will always clothe you and keep you safe. Groom, you never have to worry about dressing well again! Bride will make sure you look good!
I’m not a Rabbi, but I am an interfaith minister. I believe in your ability to make intimate promises to each other, and your sincerity in making those promises will indeed bless both of you.
The exchange of the wedding rings are a symbolic part of the wedding ceremony. They are traditionally a simple, yet perfect, gold band. It symbolized the hope that your marriage will be a marriage of simple beauty. It is when the ring is placed on the brides hand that marriage is considered complete.
I will recite the traditional Jewish 7 blessings of marriage, followed by the breaking of a glass. It is a Jewish custom to end the wedding ceremony with the breaking of a glass. Some people say that this symbolizes the irrevocable change in the lives of the couple standing before us; others say it has its roots in superstition, when people broke glasses to scare away evil spirits. And, of course, the breaking of the glass marks the beginning of the celebration. So please, after Groom breaks the glass, I invite everyone to shout the Hebrew words “Mazel Tov,” meaning “Congratulations.”
Now, Let’s Get started.
Who Presents this woman/man?
We do,
In Jewish weddings the bride and the groom are escorted down the aisle by both of their parents. You can also ask both sets of parents to "presents this person in marriage"
Thank you.
Vows
Please join hands and face each other
On this day do you affirm the love that the two of you share, looking to the future to deepen and strengthen it? Will you affirm that love, in plenty and in want, in sickness and in health, in failure and in triumph? Together will you share and break bread? When you stumble will you restore one another? Will you share all things, serving one another and your fellow man? Will you cherish and respect, comfort and encourage, each other for as long as you both shall live?
Bride and Groom: We do.
Do you Groom, take Bride, to be your wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do you part?
Groom Responds: “I do”
Do you Bride take Groom, to be your husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do you part?
Bride Responds: responds, “I do”
Ring Exchange
May we have the rings please?
The rings are the universal symbols of marriage. They have many meanings. From now on you will wear these rings, and like love, they have no beginning and no end. They are a daily reminder of your marriage. Sometimes they will remind you of the commitment that you have made - for better or worse. But, may they always remind you that there is one person in the world that has pledged their love to you with all that they have.
Bride, Please repeat after me: Groom, I give you this ring as a symbol of my enduring love and lifelong devotion. Wear it and know that I love you.
Groom, Please repeat after me: Bride, I give you this ring as a symbol of my enduring love and lifelong devotion. Wear it and know that I love you.
THE SEVEN BLESSINGS RECITED AT A JEWISH WEDDING
May you be blessed with love. May your admiration, appreciation and understanding of each other foster a love that is passionate, tranquil and real. May this love between you be strong and enduring, and bring peace into your lives.
May you be blessed with a loving home filled with warmth, humor and compassion. May you create a family together that honors traditions old and new. May you teach your children to have equal respect for themselves and others, and instill in them the value of learning and tikkun olam (making the world a better place).
May you be best friends and work together to build a relationship of substance and quality. May your sense of humor and playful spirit continue to enliven your relationship. May you respect each other’s individual personality and perspective, and give each other room to grow in fulfilling your dreams.
May you be blessed with wisdom. May you continually learn from one another and from the world. Together, may you grow, deepening your knowledge and understanding of each other and of your journey through life.
May you be blessed with health. May life bring you wholeness of mind, body and spirit. May you keep each other well-balanced and grounded, and live long that you may share many happy years together.
May your life be blessed with the art and beauty of this world. May your creative aspirations and experiences find expression, inspire you, and bring you joy and fulfillment. May you find happiness together in adventures big and small, and something to celebrate each day of your lives.
May you be blessed with community. May you always be blessed with the awareness that you are an essential part of a circle of family and friends. May there always be within this group love, trust, support and laughter, and may there be many future occasions for rejoicing in their company.
I now pronounce you husband and wife! You may kiss the bride!
Breaking of the glass
Everyone shouts Mazel Tov!!!
Welcome Everyone! Thank you for being here today to celebrate the marriage of Bride and Groom as they make their promises to each other and become husband and wife. In the ceremony they will be honoring some Jewish traditions.
They meet here first, under the chuppah. The chuppah is a canopy which sits atop four poles. The marriage ceremony takes place beneath this canopy, which is open on all sides, representing the couple's commitment to establish a home together that will always be open to guests .
There are veils in Jewish weddings - As in weddings of other faiths -They symbolize the idea of modesty and convey that however attractive physical appearances may be, the soul and character are paramount. With or without a veil, we remember this union is based on a mental, physical and spiritual commitment for a lifetime. Veils are also used to signal the groom's commitment to clothe and protect his wife. So Bride, you can take comfort in knowing no matter what, Groom will always clothe you and keep you safe. Groom, you never have to worry about dressing well again! Bride will make sure you look good!
I’m not a Rabbi, but I am an interfaith minister. I believe in your ability to make intimate promises to each other, and your sincerity in making those promises will indeed bless both of you.
The exchange of the wedding rings are a symbolic part of the wedding ceremony. They are traditionally a simple, yet perfect, gold band. It symbolized the hope that your marriage will be a marriage of simple beauty. It is when the ring is placed on the brides hand that marriage is considered complete.
I will recite the traditional Jewish 7 blessings of marriage, followed by the breaking of a glass. It is a Jewish custom to end the wedding ceremony with the breaking of a glass. Some people say that this symbolizes the irrevocable change in the lives of the couple standing before us; others say it has its roots in superstition, when people broke glasses to scare away evil spirits. And, of course, the breaking of the glass marks the beginning of the celebration. So please, after Groom breaks the glass, I invite everyone to shout the Hebrew words “Mazel Tov,” meaning “Congratulations.”
Now, Let’s Get started.
Who Presents this woman/man?
We do,
In Jewish weddings the bride and the groom are escorted down the aisle by both of their parents. You can also ask both sets of parents to "presents this person in marriage"
Thank you.
Vows
Please join hands and face each other
On this day do you affirm the love that the two of you share, looking to the future to deepen and strengthen it? Will you affirm that love, in plenty and in want, in sickness and in health, in failure and in triumph? Together will you share and break bread? When you stumble will you restore one another? Will you share all things, serving one another and your fellow man? Will you cherish and respect, comfort and encourage, each other for as long as you both shall live?
Bride and Groom: We do.
Do you Groom, take Bride, to be your wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do you part?
Groom Responds: “I do”
Do you Bride take Groom, to be your husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do you part?
Bride Responds: responds, “I do”
Ring Exchange
May we have the rings please?
The rings are the universal symbols of marriage. They have many meanings. From now on you will wear these rings, and like love, they have no beginning and no end. They are a daily reminder of your marriage. Sometimes they will remind you of the commitment that you have made - for better or worse. But, may they always remind you that there is one person in the world that has pledged their love to you with all that they have.
Bride, Please repeat after me: Groom, I give you this ring as a symbol of my enduring love and lifelong devotion. Wear it and know that I love you.
Groom, Please repeat after me: Bride, I give you this ring as a symbol of my enduring love and lifelong devotion. Wear it and know that I love you.
THE SEVEN BLESSINGS RECITED AT A JEWISH WEDDING
May you be blessed with love. May your admiration, appreciation and understanding of each other foster a love that is passionate, tranquil and real. May this love between you be strong and enduring, and bring peace into your lives.
May you be blessed with a loving home filled with warmth, humor and compassion. May you create a family together that honors traditions old and new. May you teach your children to have equal respect for themselves and others, and instill in them the value of learning and tikkun olam (making the world a better place).
May you be best friends and work together to build a relationship of substance and quality. May your sense of humor and playful spirit continue to enliven your relationship. May you respect each other’s individual personality and perspective, and give each other room to grow in fulfilling your dreams.
May you be blessed with wisdom. May you continually learn from one another and from the world. Together, may you grow, deepening your knowledge and understanding of each other and of your journey through life.
May you be blessed with health. May life bring you wholeness of mind, body and spirit. May you keep each other well-balanced and grounded, and live long that you may share many happy years together.
May your life be blessed with the art and beauty of this world. May your creative aspirations and experiences find expression, inspire you, and bring you joy and fulfillment. May you find happiness together in adventures big and small, and something to celebrate each day of your lives.
May you be blessed with community. May you always be blessed with the awareness that you are an essential part of a circle of family and friends. May there always be within this group love, trust, support and laughter, and may there be many future occasions for rejoicing in their company.
I now pronounce you husband and wife! You may kiss the bride!
Breaking of the glass
Everyone shouts Mazel Tov!!!
Wedding Ceremony Script 8
An updated Handfasting
An updated Handfasting
Family and friends, thank you for joining us here today as we join Bride and Groom in marriage. It is our joy to witness and celebrate their wedding in a rich celebration, sustained as we are in the mysterious power of all creation and whose core is Love.
Bride and Groom come here today as two individuals seeking to become one in marriage. By choosing to marry, you do not lose your individuality but instead, enter into a promise of a new life united in your love.
And we, your family and friends, have gathered here to share in your joy and to ask the infinite power in creation to bless you. We hold that marriage is a gift, sealed by a tender, lasting, sacred covenant.
Presentations of the Bride & Groom
The marriage of Bride and Groom brings together two different families and their two unique storylines. Today, a new chapter in their lives begins to unfold. Although this relationship was formed out of the love these two have found in each other, their marriage will ultimately be blessed by the support of their families. At this time, I formally ask for that blessing.
Groom’s mother and father, Name, and Name do you offer this couple your goodwill? Do you welcome Bride as a member of your family and give her your love and affection? Parents: We do.
Bride’s Mother and Father, Name, and Name, do you offer this couple your goodwill? Do you welcome Groom as a member of your family and give him your love and affection? Parents: We do.
All of you here present, As these two people join together in marriage, they ask for the support and love of not only their families but of their friends as well. On this day, they ask that you be more than only Friends and family and honored guests, will you recognize this special union as well? Welcoming the marriage of Bride and Groom into your lives? If so, please say, “we will.” Everyone: We will
Thank you.
Bride and Groom have chosen to perform a handfasting as part of their wedding ceremony today. You may be asking, what is handfasting? Good question! Handfasting is an ancient custom used long before there were legalities to marriage, and before marriages were performed in churches or synagogues. There was a time when to be seen in public holding hands was a sign that a couple was exclusive to one another and the handfasting ceremony is built around that holding of hands. During a handfasting, the couple holds hands and their hands are symbolically tied together and they say their vows. If you are a fan of the movies Princess Bride or Braveheart, or the series Game of Thrones - They all had handfastings. It might be said that the act of handfasting inspired the terms “Bonds of Holy Matrimony” and “Tie the knot.”
Handfasting is part of the marriage celebration in earth-based religions where the couple links hands, to form an infinity circle, symbolizing the entirety of the universe as represented in their relationship.
With that in mind, Bride and Groom, please join hands in the infinity circle.
(Bride gives her flowers to her maid of honor)
Know now before you go further, that since your lives have crossed in this life you have formed ties between each other. As you seek to enter this state of matrimony you should strive to make real the ideals that give meaning to both this ceremony and the institution of marriage.
With full awareness, know that within this circle you are not only declaring your intent to be handfasted before your friends and family, but you speak that intent to something greater, to the mystical power of love itself. The promises made today and the ties that are bound here greatly strengthen your union; they will cross the years and lives of each soul's growth.
Declaration of Intent
I now ask you both:
Do you both seek to enter into this ceremony where you will make the commitment to each other to live together as husband and wife?
Couple: Yes, We Seek to Enter.
Dedication (Blessing) of the Hands
You are holding hands today during this ceremony to symbolize your physical joining in a spiritual covenant. Remember that marriage itself is active engagement. You will, at some point, have to get your hands dirty working at it. With that in mind, remember that:
These are the hands that will passionately love you and cherish you through the years, for a lifetime of happiness.
These are the hands that will countless times wipe the tears from your eyes: tears of sorrow and tears of joy.
These are the hands that will comfort you in illness and hold you when fear or grief racks your mind.
These are the hands that will hold you tight as you struggle through difficult times.
These are the hands that will give you support and encourage you to chase your dreams. Together, everything you wish for can be realized.
Prepare the cords
Today we will use this cord to symbolize the binding or promises. (We can give more meaning to the cord you actually choose, when you choose it. The meaning of the colors etc… Or maybe you will choose a scarf that beloved to a loved one that had a long, happy marriage… You could choose a rope and “tie the actual knot” in the end???)
The First Promise AKA Vows
Also known as the binding
Groom, Will you be Bride’s faithful partner for life?
Groom: Yes, I will.
Bride, will you be Groom’s faithful partner for life?
Bride: Yes, I will.
Will you be each other’s constant friends and one true love?
Both: Yes, We will.
And so the binding is made.
The cord is wrapped around the couple's wrist.
The second promise
Bride, do you promise to love Groom without reservation?
Bride: Yes, I do.
Groom, do you promise to love Bride without reservation?
Groom, Yes, I do.
Will both of you stand by one another in sickness and in health, in plenty and in want?
Both: Yes, We do.
And so the binding is made.
The cord is wrapped around the couple's wrist.
The Third Promise
Bride, will you stand together with Groom in your times of joy and sorrow?
Bride: Yes, I will.
Groom, will you stand together with Bride in your times of joy and sorrow?
Groom: Yes, I will
Will the two of you share the burdens of each so that your spirits may grow in this union?
Both answer: Yes, we will
And so the binding is made.
The cord is wrapped around the couple's wrist.
The Fourth Promise
Groom, do you promise you will always be open and honest with Bride, for as long as you both shall live?
Groom: Yes, I promise.
Bride, do you promise you will always be open and honest with Groom, for as long as you both shall live?
Bride: Yes, I promise.
Will the two of you dream together to create new realities and hopes for this marriage?
Both: Yes, we will
And so the binding is made.
The cord is wrapped around the couple's wrist.
The Fifth Promise
Bride, Will you honor this man?
Bride: I will
Groom, Will you honor this woman?
Groom, Yes, I will
Will you both seek to cherish and strengthen that honor?
Both: Yes, We will
And so the binding is made.
The cord is wrapped around the couple's wrist.
Binding of All Promises
Remove cord while saying:
The knots of this binding are not formed by these chords but instead by your vows. Either of you may drop the chords, for as always, you hold in your own hands the making or breaking of this union.
Blessing and Exchange of Rings
May we have the rings, please?
Who will have the rings?
These rings are circles, symbols that remind us of the Sun, and the Earth, and the universe. Symbols of holiness, of perfection, of peace, and that which has no beginning and no end.
In this moment, let us all bring our blessing to these rings so that they may remain symbols of unity and commitment. Grant that the love which Bride and Groom have for each other now may always be as unending as these rings. Let us take a moment and send our prayers, our thoughts, and our love to these rings so that as they wear them, they will carry our love with them as well.
Bride and Groom, as you wear these rings throughout your marriage and your lives, may they remind you of the love you share with one another.
Groom, as you place the ring on Bride’s finger, please repeat after me:
With this ring, I thee wed, let it ever be a symbol of my love.
Bride, as you place the ring on Groom’s finger, please repeat after me:
With this ring, I thee wed, let it ever be a symbol of my love.
Recognition Of Marriage
Only a couple can seal the promise of marriage to each other, and only a couple can bind it. No power vested in me by the state can grant me the authority to declare what only these two hearts can declare, and what only these two souls can make real.
And so now, inasmuch as you, Groom, and you, Bride, have announced the truths that are already written in your hearts, and have witnessed the same in the presence of these, your family and friends, -- we observe joyfully that you are now husband and wife.
I present to you Mrs. and Mrs. !!!!
Bride and Groom come here today as two individuals seeking to become one in marriage. By choosing to marry, you do not lose your individuality but instead, enter into a promise of a new life united in your love.
And we, your family and friends, have gathered here to share in your joy and to ask the infinite power in creation to bless you. We hold that marriage is a gift, sealed by a tender, lasting, sacred covenant.
Presentations of the Bride & Groom
The marriage of Bride and Groom brings together two different families and their two unique storylines. Today, a new chapter in their lives begins to unfold. Although this relationship was formed out of the love these two have found in each other, their marriage will ultimately be blessed by the support of their families. At this time, I formally ask for that blessing.
Groom’s mother and father, Name, and Name do you offer this couple your goodwill? Do you welcome Bride as a member of your family and give her your love and affection? Parents: We do.
Bride’s Mother and Father, Name, and Name, do you offer this couple your goodwill? Do you welcome Groom as a member of your family and give him your love and affection? Parents: We do.
All of you here present, As these two people join together in marriage, they ask for the support and love of not only their families but of their friends as well. On this day, they ask that you be more than only Friends and family and honored guests, will you recognize this special union as well? Welcoming the marriage of Bride and Groom into your lives? If so, please say, “we will.” Everyone: We will
Thank you.
Bride and Groom have chosen to perform a handfasting as part of their wedding ceremony today. You may be asking, what is handfasting? Good question! Handfasting is an ancient custom used long before there were legalities to marriage, and before marriages were performed in churches or synagogues. There was a time when to be seen in public holding hands was a sign that a couple was exclusive to one another and the handfasting ceremony is built around that holding of hands. During a handfasting, the couple holds hands and their hands are symbolically tied together and they say their vows. If you are a fan of the movies Princess Bride or Braveheart, or the series Game of Thrones - They all had handfastings. It might be said that the act of handfasting inspired the terms “Bonds of Holy Matrimony” and “Tie the knot.”
Handfasting is part of the marriage celebration in earth-based religions where the couple links hands, to form an infinity circle, symbolizing the entirety of the universe as represented in their relationship.
With that in mind, Bride and Groom, please join hands in the infinity circle.
(Bride gives her flowers to her maid of honor)
Know now before you go further, that since your lives have crossed in this life you have formed ties between each other. As you seek to enter this state of matrimony you should strive to make real the ideals that give meaning to both this ceremony and the institution of marriage.
With full awareness, know that within this circle you are not only declaring your intent to be handfasted before your friends and family, but you speak that intent to something greater, to the mystical power of love itself. The promises made today and the ties that are bound here greatly strengthen your union; they will cross the years and lives of each soul's growth.
Declaration of Intent
I now ask you both:
Do you both seek to enter into this ceremony where you will make the commitment to each other to live together as husband and wife?
Couple: Yes, We Seek to Enter.
Dedication (Blessing) of the Hands
You are holding hands today during this ceremony to symbolize your physical joining in a spiritual covenant. Remember that marriage itself is active engagement. You will, at some point, have to get your hands dirty working at it. With that in mind, remember that:
These are the hands that will passionately love you and cherish you through the years, for a lifetime of happiness.
These are the hands that will countless times wipe the tears from your eyes: tears of sorrow and tears of joy.
These are the hands that will comfort you in illness and hold you when fear or grief racks your mind.
These are the hands that will hold you tight as you struggle through difficult times.
These are the hands that will give you support and encourage you to chase your dreams. Together, everything you wish for can be realized.
Prepare the cords
Today we will use this cord to symbolize the binding or promises. (We can give more meaning to the cord you actually choose, when you choose it. The meaning of the colors etc… Or maybe you will choose a scarf that beloved to a loved one that had a long, happy marriage… You could choose a rope and “tie the actual knot” in the end???)
The First Promise AKA Vows
Also known as the binding
Groom, Will you be Bride’s faithful partner for life?
Groom: Yes, I will.
Bride, will you be Groom’s faithful partner for life?
Bride: Yes, I will.
Will you be each other’s constant friends and one true love?
Both: Yes, We will.
And so the binding is made.
The cord is wrapped around the couple's wrist.
The second promise
Bride, do you promise to love Groom without reservation?
Bride: Yes, I do.
Groom, do you promise to love Bride without reservation?
Groom, Yes, I do.
Will both of you stand by one another in sickness and in health, in plenty and in want?
Both: Yes, We do.
And so the binding is made.
The cord is wrapped around the couple's wrist.
The Third Promise
Bride, will you stand together with Groom in your times of joy and sorrow?
Bride: Yes, I will.
Groom, will you stand together with Bride in your times of joy and sorrow?
Groom: Yes, I will
Will the two of you share the burdens of each so that your spirits may grow in this union?
Both answer: Yes, we will
And so the binding is made.
The cord is wrapped around the couple's wrist.
The Fourth Promise
Groom, do you promise you will always be open and honest with Bride, for as long as you both shall live?
Groom: Yes, I promise.
Bride, do you promise you will always be open and honest with Groom, for as long as you both shall live?
Bride: Yes, I promise.
Will the two of you dream together to create new realities and hopes for this marriage?
Both: Yes, we will
And so the binding is made.
The cord is wrapped around the couple's wrist.
The Fifth Promise
Bride, Will you honor this man?
Bride: I will
Groom, Will you honor this woman?
Groom, Yes, I will
Will you both seek to cherish and strengthen that honor?
Both: Yes, We will
And so the binding is made.
The cord is wrapped around the couple's wrist.
Binding of All Promises
Remove cord while saying:
The knots of this binding are not formed by these chords but instead by your vows. Either of you may drop the chords, for as always, you hold in your own hands the making or breaking of this union.
Blessing and Exchange of Rings
May we have the rings, please?
Who will have the rings?
These rings are circles, symbols that remind us of the Sun, and the Earth, and the universe. Symbols of holiness, of perfection, of peace, and that which has no beginning and no end.
In this moment, let us all bring our blessing to these rings so that they may remain symbols of unity and commitment. Grant that the love which Bride and Groom have for each other now may always be as unending as these rings. Let us take a moment and send our prayers, our thoughts, and our love to these rings so that as they wear them, they will carry our love with them as well.
Bride and Groom, as you wear these rings throughout your marriage and your lives, may they remind you of the love you share with one another.
Groom, as you place the ring on Bride’s finger, please repeat after me:
With this ring, I thee wed, let it ever be a symbol of my love.
Bride, as you place the ring on Groom’s finger, please repeat after me:
With this ring, I thee wed, let it ever be a symbol of my love.
Recognition Of Marriage
Only a couple can seal the promise of marriage to each other, and only a couple can bind it. No power vested in me by the state can grant me the authority to declare what only these two hearts can declare, and what only these two souls can make real.
And so now, inasmuch as you, Groom, and you, Bride, have announced the truths that are already written in your hearts, and have witnessed the same in the presence of these, your family and friends, -- we observe joyfully that you are now husband and wife.
I present to you Mrs. and Mrs. !!!!
